The Need Orientation of the Gift of Mercy The "need orientation" of the saint who has been given the Gift of Mercy is to meet the Emotional Needs of the body. Every church would be wise to identify those in the body who have the Gift of Mercy and take advantage of their sensitivity, tender care, compassion, empathy, discernment, wisdom, and overall perceptions regarding the emotional needs throughout the body! Although there are many needs in the body of Christ, each Spiritual Gift has a specific need that it is divinely ordained to meet. In each of the following chapters regarding certain Spiritual Gifts, we will show the orientation of that Spiritual Gift to meet a particular need in the body. Mercy-Givers are the "Watchdogs" of the Emotional Needs Within the Church Mercies are the "watchdogs" of the emotional needs found within a church body. They tend to sniff out, like a champion hunting dog, the emotional needs within the body, meet those needs, and then, like watchdogs, protect the members. Emotional needs arise in many ways, and at any given time, and in every church those needs can be found. Sometimes, they are affiliated with physical needs, but sometimes, they are not. They come through sickness and disease, accidents, financial and material losses, marital problems, family conflicts, relational difficulties, unexpected and undesirable circumstances, and the death of a loved one.

Life is full of these types of heartaches and sadness, which puts a premium on those with the Gift of Mercy. The Holy Spirit has equipped the members of the body to have their emotional needs met through the emotional care given by those possessing the Gift of Mercy. Mercy-Givers are Driven by Mercy, Love, and Compassion Robert McCheyne kept in close contact with his beloved parents by means of letters throughout his lifetime. He watered and cultivated this relationship, as he did others, with love and concern. One of his favorite quotes was "Love so as to be missed!" Robert Murray McCheyne died on Saturday, March 25th, 1843. Over 6000 attended his funeral. He was missed! Upon the death of McCheyne, his friend, Andrew Bonar, said, "There was no friend whom I loved like him." I feel very safe in saying that if Bonar had died first, McCheyne the Mercy would have uttered these very same words.

Through the tender love and faithful affection of Mercies, other men with strong Leadership Gifts are drawn to them. Robert Murray McCheyne''s saintliness, compassion, mercy, graciousness, and love all still shine brightly over a century and a half later! . Mercy-Givers are Able to Share In Both the Emotional Pain and Joy of Others The Holy Spirit equips Mercies with the ability to empathize with those who suffer and to rejoice with those who rejoice as no one else can do. Few can suffer with others like the prophet Jeremiah, the author of two Old Testament books including the Lamentations of Jeremiah; few that is but Mercies. In the words of J. Vernon McGee, the book of Lamentations" is filled with tears and sorrow. It is a paean of pain, a poem of pity, a proverb of pathos, an hymn of heartbreak, a Psalm of sadness, a symphony of sorrow. It is the Wailing Wall of the Bible.

" Notice carefully the emotional descriptions used by Matthew Henry and C. I. Scofield to introduce us to Jeremiah''s Lamentations. Mercy-Givers Both Attract and are Drawn to People With Stress and Distress "Everybody is hurting," so said a Mercy to me one day when discussing this subject. The broad perspective of Mercies is that everyone around them has a reason to be hurting, which then leads to emotional pain. Later, in the same conversation, that man said, "Problems are obvious!" They see hurts better than anyone else. When a Mercy sees emotional stress, suffering, and distress, his Motivational Gift goes into gear. Thus, they seek to share that pain and do something about it.

Mercy-Givers are Attracted to People with Leadership Gifts Henry Drummond (1851-1897), a Scottish evangelist and pastor in the Free Church, was a Mercy-Giver. D. L. Moody called Drummond one of the most lovable men that he had ever known. Drummond is best known for his famous message from I Corinthians 13. His message was published with the title of "The Greatest Thing in the World," something that this Mercy knew well and demonstrated fully. Henry Drummond became a close friend of another famous evangelist who had the Gift of Prophecy, that man being Dwight L. Moody.

This is very typical of people with the Gift of Mercy and those with the Gift of Prophecy, as we shall soon see. Jonathan, a Mercy in the Old Testament, was attracted to David, who had the Leadership Gift of Exhortation. Actually, Jonathan had a double bond with David. Because King Saul was persecuting David even to the point of death, Jonathan, being the Mercy, was emotionally attracted to protect and assist David. That is actually the second cord to bind them together, with the first cord being the attraction of their Spiritual Gifts one to another. John, a Mercy in the New Testament, was attracted to Peter, who had the Leadership Gift of Prophecy. Interestingly enough, the apostle John spoke more about Peter than any of the authors of the other three Synoptic Gospels, even though Matthew and Luke were much longer books. Mercy-Givers Normally Prefer to Work Behind the Scenes Indeed, Mercies normally prefer to work behind the scenes.

Mercies are most effective when working with small groups, one-on-one, or serving in other areas behind the scenes. That is where these Grace Gifts shine the brightest. The fact that Mercies prefer to work with hurting people generally puts them in situations where they are working with smaller groups, or even individuals, rather than large crowds. Besides that, it is not possible for Mercies to get close enough to everyone in a large crowd in order to feel the hurt and pain of the multitude. They can quickly pick up the emotional needs of an individual or of a small group. For Mercies, this is where the action is. Mercies are not necessarily always quiet, but they do tend to be active and listen more than they speak. A.

Mercy-Givers are not prone to talk about themselves. The apostle John never mentioned his own name in his Gospel of St. John. (I doubt that John would have even put his own name on this Gospel, and, if he were alive today I am sure that he would vote for changing the name of this book to something without his own name on it.) "Now there was leaning on Jesus'' bosom one of His disciples, whom Jesus loved." - John 13:23 "When Jesus therefore saw His mother, and the disciple standing by, whom He loved, He saith unto His mother, Woman, behold thy son!" - John 19:26 The point is, Mercies do not want their names in neon lights. Characteristics of the Christian Who Walks in the Flesh With the Gift of Mercy Warren Wiersbe tells a story of ministering with two church members who had opposing attitudes towards their Motivational Gifts. One man constantly downplayed his Joy Gift and refused to use it, while the other man constantly boasted about having several "gifts" that he did not even have.

They were both walking in the flesh in regards to their "Spiritual Gifts" whatever gifts they might have had! Both of these men were guilty of spiritual arrogance since both refused to give God the glory for the Spiritual Gifts that the Spirit had given them. One was arrogant in that he had no respect for the supernatural Gift given to him by the Spirit of God. The other demonstrated his ego by gloating over some imagined number of "gifts" he thought he owned. Each extreme is just as wicked as the other. The Gifts of the Spirit are not spiritual toys to be played with; neither are they weapons with which to do battle in the church.