WAS is a child who likes to win, but knows how to lose graciously. WASN'T is a child who also likes to win, but hates to lose. And when he does, he not only loses his temper, he loses his friends. WAS helps WASN'T understand that losing is just part of playing. And whether you win or lose, it should always be fun. The Series Big Life Lessons for Little Kids: CAN, CAN'T, COULD, COULDN'T, DID, DIDN'T, WAS, WASN'T, WILL and WON'T -- known collectively as the CAN DOs -- are all friends and they each have something to teach your child. From sharing and perseverance to doing homework and being a good sport, the CAN DOs help you as a parent lay the foundations for a well-rounded, confident and outgoing child.