"The road to understanding an asexual identity can be long and full of uncertainty. I hope this book shines a light through the confusion into self-knowledge and happiness."--Maia Kobabe, author of Gender Queer: A Memoir "Reflective and honest. Bringing fascinating insight into the complex relationship between asexuality and US culture."--Rebecca Burgess, author of How to be Ace "Warm, vulnerable art that pops off the page, radiating the powerful message that the bravery to see yourself is the way home to true love."--Cara Gormally, author of Everything Is Fine, I'll Just Work Harder "Frank yet compassionate, Cooklin's journey is her own but will resonate with others who have worried about being broken or never finding the partner they wish for."--Molly Muldoon, author of A Quick and Easy Guide to Asexuality "A story that stays with you long after you've finished it. It feels like being hugged by a long-lost friend.

Read this book. It's going to live rent-free in your heart."--Erika Moen, co-creator of Let's Talk About It and Oh Joy Sex Toy "A deeply tender memoir, at times heartbreaking, but always filled with empathy for cooklin's younger self and never shying away from her truth."-- Natalie Norris, author of Dear Mini "[The] forthright debut . documents [the author's] asexuality and its impact on romantic relationships throughout her life. and unabashedly vulnerable and informative account." -- Publishers Weekly "This powerful account will comfort those who grew up feeling broken."--Starred Review Booklist.