"Elvi (a child of color with light brown skin and straight, brown hair) has two moms (one of whom has darker skin and hair and one, lighter than Elvi). When Nicholas (who has light brown skin and curly hair) comes over to their house, he asks, "Elvi, which one is your real mom?" Elvi''s initial, confident retort is: "They''re both my real mom." Elvi patiently offers similar responses as Nicholas persists, then starts to have a little fun.Ideally, readers who need this message will grasp it sooner than Nicholas does, though perhaps the book''s impact will have more power for those who read it as validation of their own experiences enduring microaggressions." -- Kirkus Reviews "This imaginative picture book affirmation of family centers brown-skinned Elvi, who has two mothers. When Elvi''s friend Nicholas asks which of her parents is the "real" one.Elvi cleverly reframes the subject, defining her mother in ways every child can understand.Hatched and stippled textures in ink and marker.
offer the illustrations a snug, soft feel" -- Publishers Weekly "This is an exceptional book. It promises kindness, humor and insight, and absolutely delivers. Who''s Your Real Mom? manages that rare combination of meaningful moral and pure narrative pleasure." -- Anica Boulanger-Mashberg, Books+Publishing "[A]n empowering approach that shows a child who confidently has her own solution.[T]here''s still a time and a place for books that deal smartly with some of the questions that children in LGBTQ families may encounter. Who''s Your Real Mom? is one of them." -- Mombian "[N]ot enough children''s books out there that represent these families . [A] great way to show children different kinds of families.
" -- Youth Services Book Review "The limited color palette is striking for its yellows, which are gender neutral and contrast with the imagined scenes in blues.Square panels and sequential scenes give a comics feel to the illustrations and correspond with the playful tone of Elvi''s responses to Nicholas'' questions. This Australian import may encourage kids with same-sex parents and could serve as a prompt for a creative writing exercise." -- Booklist "This is a question I imagine many children with same sex parents receive. It must get old. Real old. The illustrations of this picture book show how much Elvi feels loved and supported in her family, and how, as Nicholas continues to just not get it, she resorts to her powerful imagination.[W]e highly recommend it!" -- Baby Librarians "This imaginative picture book affirmation of family centres brown-skinned Elvi, who has two mothers.
When Elvi''s friend Nicholas asks which of her parents is the "real" one.Elvi cleverly reframes the subject, defining her mother in ways every child can understand. Hatched and stippled textures in ink and marker.offer the illustrations a snug, soft feel." -- Publishers Weekly "Elvi (a child of colour with light brown skin and straight, brown hair) has two mums (one of whom has darker skin and hair and one, lighter than Elvi). When Nicholas (who has light brown skin and curly hair) comes over to their house, he asks, ''Elvi, which one is your real mum?'' Elvi''s initial, confident retort is: ''They''re both my real mum.'' Elvi patiently offers similar responses as Nicholas persists, then starts to have a little fun.Ideally, readers who need this message will grasp it sooner than Nicholas does, though perhaps the book''s impact will have more power for those who read it as validation of their own experiences enduring microaggressions.
" -- Kirkus Reviews "Elvi''s imagination guides her answer to a curious question about what is real. Love is bigger than any answer she can give and her age appropriate answer is pedagogically perfect and developmentally spot on." -- Jesica Sweedler DeHart, Librarian Review, Neill Public Library "This is wonderful--the friend''s curiosity and the child''s creative, loving answers ring so true. All mums will love this! It''s definitely not just for families with two mums; it is an endearing and fun book for all young readers and grown-ups who care for them." -- Tegan Tigani, Bookseller Review, Queen Anne Book Company.