If you are caring for a child or young person who is toileting differently, this book has the advice and guidance you need. Toileting differences and withholding are common in young people, but parents and carers of neurodivergent or disabled children often find that the standard advice doesn't apply. If you feel out of your depth and aren't sure what to do next, you are not alone. This practical, compassionate guide is tailored to the needs of neurodivergent and disabled children. Written with parents and carers in mind, it's packed with actionable ideas in accessible formats. You'll explore how key factors like communication needs, sensory processing, demand avoidance and co-occurring medical conditions impact toileting and feel empowered to support your young person in their toileting journey.