"I have not been as profoundly moved by a book in years. If you have a mother or grandmother, or ARE a mother or a grandmother, this is required reading. Bess Kalb''s fictional-factual tribute to the relationship she had with her grandmother--the way her history was passed to her by blood, along with bright memories and Jewish guilt and fierce, fierce love--could have been my own story. When I stop crying, I''m calling my mother immediately and making her read it." --Jodi Picoult "I delighted in Bobby''s joy. I cried twice." --Miranda Popkey, The New York Times Book Review "Tender, funny, fresh, and unconventional, Nobody Will Tell You This But Me manages to make something new and wonderful out of a family memoir. Kalb has a light, lovely touch and a big heart, which combine to make this book irresistible.
" --Susan Orlean, author of The Library Book "I am in love with the all-consuming, hilarious, primal relationship between Bess Kalb and her late grandmother, Bobby Bell. This memoir made my heart swell, my eyes alight in amazement and joy. Bobby regales her granddaughter with her infinite wisdom, which is almost always over the top and a little bit critical but delivered with love''s exuberance." -- Al Woodworth, Amazon Book Review "Lively and fascinating, funny yet poignant. There are laughs galore throughout the book . [yet] Kalb processes her own grief as she writes, sharing how she reacted in the days following her grandmother''s death. Kalb pulls off [a] daring approach brilliantly--in a bold stroke of literary bravura, she has turned the formula for writing memoirs inside out, bringing her grandmother''s distinctive voice back to life and sharing it with a legion of lucky readers . Enthralling.
" --Alice Cary, BookPage [starred review] " Nobody Will Tell You This But Me is precisely that--a book no one other than Bess Kalb would think to create. It''s an invented form that has bursts of comic lines as good as in any movie, and pathos as deep as in any novel. I love this book." -- Mike Birbiglia, author of Sleepwalk with Me and The New One "Funny, tender and incredibly moving . Both a family history and a celebration of the bond between grandmother and granddaughter--a book that gives you a solid cathartic weep and a renewed sense of joy in family ties." --Mackenzie Dawson, New York Post "I have never read anything that feels truer to my experience of having a Jewish grandmother than Nobody Will Tell You This But Me . Bess Kalb''s memoir is told from the perspective of her grandmother, Bobby, and Bess captures her voice beautifully. Funny, heartwarming, deeply moving.
" --Emily Burack, Hey Alma "We are the stories we leave behind, and so we must depend on the storytellers who carry forward our memories. ''Grandma Bobby'' gave Bess Kalb gifts of love and language (and lunches at the Plaza!), and in this deeply moving and powerful book, Bess repays her in full with a magnificent act of conjuring. Bobby, and the line of stubborn women of which she was the keystone, lives on in this act of love. This book made me miss my own grandmother, who didn''t have Bobby''s style, but was just as fierce. I wish I had listened to her as carefully as Bess did to Bobby." --Peter Sagal, host of NPR''s Wait, Wait. Don''t Tell Me! "Thank you Bess Kalb for giving us Bobby. She is hilarious and honest and heartbreaking and completely alive in these pages--and I love her.
" --Gary Janetti, author of Do You Mind If I Cancel? "An endearing, bittersweet, entertainingly fresh take on the family memoir. Kalb employs an unconventional yet highly effective and charming narrative, channeling the voice and personality of her grandmother, Bobby Bell, who snares readers'' attention right from the first, [as] Kalb sharply reimagines her inner thoughts and remembers her fiercely nurturing criticism. The narrative skillfully captures Bobby''s wit, worldly advice, well-intentioned meddling, and enduring love for her granddaughter. Readers familiar with the Bobby in their own families will appreciate the stoic overprotectiveness and exasperation that come with being a parent and grandparent. As the book progresses, the story becomes both sad and poignant--the photos and the imagined conversations make for sometimes heartbreaking reading, honoring a beloved grandmother''s legacy." -- Kirkus (starred review).