Preface Counter-Cultural Strut Predestined to Be the Same Becoming Somebody Walking Counter-Culture Birthing New Faith What Is New Faith? The Goal of New Faith Fall in Love with You Not Men-Haters Women and the Black Church We Become Students of the Word Womanist Theology We Ain't Going Anywhere My Soul Looks Back Healing History Slavery and Christianity The Past Colors Our Present Too Much Focus on Fashion The Backbone of the Church Revising Ourselves Old Ways, New Ways Corrective Love Tending Your Garden Sisterhood Future Style The Walls That Divide No Enemies Here! Rocking the Cradle and the World Black Mothers Reclaiming Motherhood A Brand-New Bag Brothers The Bible and Gender Wars Keys to the Conflict Sisters and Brothers in Truth Sins of the Father We Must Turn on the Light Fathers in the Bible Fatherlessness We Are Stuck Sexual Abuse Survivors, Not Victims It's Time for Love Sisters Awake and Aware Putting Slavery Behind Us Love Our Way Dating The Men We Want Becoming One Flesh New Faith Partnering Costs of Traditional Marriage Overhauling Traditional Misunderstandings Roots of the Domination Fixation Authentic Intimacy Partnership Marriage Cleaning Up the House Women's Work Men's Work What We Can Do Together Striving toward the Vision Notes Selected Readings.