1. Which of the characters in We'll Never Tell did you relate most to, and why? 2. In what ways did you empathize with Phoebe? Did her character make you want to shake some sense into her? 3. If you could sit down and chat with any character in the book, which one would it be? Why, and what would you tell her (or him)? What would you want to know more about? 4. Far too often, girlfriends blame "the other woman" when things go bad in their relationships. What were the real signs Phoebe missed that made Henry not worth fighting over? 5. Do you feel that Shandra deserved some "punishing"? If so, at what point did Phoebe's revenge go too far? Would you have done the same in a similar situation? 6. Phoebe, Miranda, and Camille made a pact to never talk about that night.

But clearly, things spiraled out of control. Is there ever a time when it's okay to break a pact with your best friends? 7. In what ways were Phoebe, Miranda, and Camille strong? How were they weak? 8. While reading the novel, did you guess who had truly murdered Shandra? Who were your main suspects and why? Were you surprised to learn the truth? 9. Do you feel sororities are a benefit to women or a detriment? Have you ever had experiences with sororities? Were they a positive or negative experience? 10. Who do you feel is the ultimate victim in the novel?.