Like a song that feels written for only you, Larissa Pham's debut work of nonfiction captures the imagination and refuses to let go. Pop Song is a book about distances, near and far. The miles we travel to get away from ourselves, or those who hurt us, and the impossible gaps that can exist between two people sharing a bed.Plumbing the well of culture for clues and patterns about love and loss - from Agnes Martin's abstract paintings to James Turrell's transcendent light works, and Anne Carson's Eros the Bittersweet to Frank Ocean's Blonde - Pham writes of her youthful attempts to find meaning in travel, sex, drugs, and art before sensing that she might need to turn her gaze upon herself.Pop Song is a celebration of the strange and exquisite state of falling in love, whether with a painting or a person, interwoven with incisive commentary on modern life. Pham creates a perfectly fractured portrait of modern intimacy, triumphant in its vulnerability and restlessness. Here is a book about all the routes by which we might escape our own needs before finally finding a way home.