"[A] powerful examination of what it means to be the second child in the family and how parents treat siblings differently. This is perfect for any parent about to have another child or anyone interested in the effects of birth order." -- GMA , "Escape into 34 books this April" "[Berger] shares with readers her comprehensive research alongside her life experiences as a parent of two. From the history of sibling jealousy to 'only child syndrome' to the myths of birth order, Berger helps parents navigate the stresses of a growing family. Second Thoughts guides readers through the daunting transition from one child to two with the heartening reminder that love is never finite." --Booklist "Journalist Berger debuts with a gorgeous rumination that combines her thoughts on becoming a mother for the second time with insight into the development of siblings. [Her] inquiry eloquently illuminates the complexities of second-time parenthood." --Publishers Weekly ".

[Lynn Berger's] inclination to show compassion toward herself and other parents, and to weigh the impact of these decisions on children, make her a companionable guide.Recommended for parents contemplating a second or third child, as well as readers interested in family dynamics." -- Library Journal "Beautifully written, deeply humane, a gem of a book." -- Rutger Bregman, New York Times bestselling author of Humankind: A Hopeful History "A subtle and captivating tour of a topic we've strangely overlooked." --Sarah Knott, author of Mother Is a Verb: An Unconventional History "Fresh, intricate, daring, and wise." --Susie Boyt, author of My Judy Garland Life.