Praise for Ex's and No's "This has become my go-to resource for clients navigating heartbreak. Cole beautifully combines science, empathy, and actionable tools to help you heal, grow, and avoid the painful mistakes that keep so many stuck. It's not just about getting over your ex (or getting them back)--it's about coming back even better than before and stepping into your best self through the process." --Morgan Starr-Riestis , LMHC, PATP "Cole Zesiger is the coach you want in your corner after a breakup. In Ex's and No's: The Breakup Advice You Don't Want to Hear , he delivers his trademark no-nonsense advice--hard-hitting yet deeply comforting. Cole reminds you he's been there too. And like him, you can reclaim your life, build with strength, and come out even better on the other side. A must read for anyone in the thick of heartbreak!" --Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu , co-authors of How to Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love and co-hosts of the hit podcast Dateable "Cole has an amazing way of being pragmatic about heartbreak while still navigating the emotional complexities you may face after a heartbreak.
It's a great step-by-step tool on how to approach the many challenges you may face during the heartbreak process. If you're lost in the process of a heartbreak, consider using this as a companion on your journey." --Jaymen Chang , author of I love this version of myself that you brought out and creator of @thebreakupjournalpdf on Instagram "I was blown away by this book. I expected something good--but not something this well-researched, insightful, and genuinely funny. As a couples therapist with over two decades of experience, I was struck by the depth of Cole's understanding of relationships. His ability to blend humor, vulnerability, and solid psychological principles makes this a book I'd recommend to anyone who cares about improving their connection with others." --Tony Overbay , LMFT and host of The Virtual Couch podcast "Cole wrote the book I want to give my personal friends and family members when they go through heartbreak. It's so practical and incredibly useful!" --Trevor Hansen , LMFT, @theartofhealingbytrevor on Instagram.