"Preface", Jane Silcott & Fiona Tinwei Lam, p. 1 Evolution "Let''s Get Married", Ronna Bloom, p. 6 An exuberant response to the wedding of close friends that celebrates the feeling of being married to the world. "The Evolution of Marriage", Luanne Armstrong, p. 7 A thrice-married and thrice-divorced writer reflects on how marriage has reformed itself over the decades, through the sixties, seventies, and eighties to the present. "On the Piano", Jane Eaton Hamilton, p. 13 The story of one same-sex litigant couple''s attempt to have their nuclear family photographs included on the parents'' piano with the rest of the family. "Cover to Cover", Fiona Tinwei Lam, p.
19 As the author struggles with the label of "wife," she examines the roots of marriage in English property law and in Confucian dictates about family hierarchy. "Dear Son", Betsy Warland, p. 27 A mother''s letter to her nineteen-year-old son about what she learned in her intimate relationships over five decades. Decisions "By the time you listen to this, I''ll be gone", Chelene Knight, p. 36 Marriage is always a choice, but it''s also a societal pressure that comes at a price too high for some. "Beach of Love and Death", Yasuko Thanh, p. 38 A carefree traveller begins a risky affair with a marriage-minded escaped convict on Mexico''s south coast. "Finding a Way Out", Jagtar Kaur Atwal, p.
45 The marriage-minded parents of a young gay East Indian woman invite a prospective husband to their home to meet her against her wishes. "The Marrying Kind", Ayelet Tsabari, p. 53 A woman reluctantly walks down the aisle in order to stay in Canada with the man she loves. Commitment "Arrivals, Departures", Russell Thornton, p. 62 This poem depicts how love can transcend geography and bureaucracy when a Canadian is separated from his spouse by immigration police at an airport in Rome. "Every Stepfather Has His Day", Kevin Chong, p. 64 A man learns that when you''re marrying a woman with a child, you''re committing to them both, joining a family while simultaneously making a new one. "The New Sacred", Monica Meneghetti, p.
69 What could a non-monogamous partner possibly have to say about marriage? "Bees of the Invisible", Kara Stanley, p. 79 In the years after a trauma has changed their world, a couple explores who they are now and who they aim to be in the future. "Shorter Days", Lorri Neilsen Glenn, p. 87 After four decades together, a couple speaks in silence and potent acts of renewal. Passion "Getting the Marriage into Bed", Michael Crummey, p. 92 A poem about moments of stolen bliss with your spouse when you have young kids and a tumultuous household. "Fireworks", Evelyn Lau, p. 94 A poem that attempts to capture an awkward evening spent in the company of two married couples who are cheating on each other.
"Lice", Miranda Pearson, p. 95 A poem about jealousy, implies a search for evidence, and perhaps clearing it up--perhaps ignoring it or tolerating it. "The Woman in This Poem", Bronwen Wallace, p. 96 A poem about a woman debating whether or not to leave her husband and family for her lover. "In Anna Karenina Furs", Susan Olding, p. 99 A feminist law student examines her failing marriage and her affair with a professor in light of Tolstoy''s Anna Karenina. "The Good Man", Chris Tarry, p. 114 Don''t look back, you might not like what you see .
"My Last Erotic Poem", Lorna Crozier, p. 121 How lucky to be passionately in love with the man I met at a poetry workshop forty years ago; he is in my poems, in my life, and in my bed. Struggles "The Time of Useful Truths", Rob Taylor, p. 124 "The Time of Useful Truths" is about the end of the beginning, and how easily it can be confused with the beginning of the end. "Cooking Class & Marriage Lessons", Jane Silcott, p. 125 A woman learns that every good meal, like every good marriage, includes a little grit. "White Night", Maureen Scott Harris, p. 128 A snoring partner-- sleeplessness in the spare room-- is this what marriage comes to? "This Is a Love Story", Michelle Kaeser, p.
130 An atheist crashes into frustrations and heartbreak when she begins a love affair with a devout believer. "Sentry", Juliane Okot Bitek, p. 146 The poet saw a young couple, asleep on the bus, that shimmered in their beauty and intimacy. Those of us who watched recognized how sleep had immortalized them, stopped time, held the ugliness of life at bay. In that moment they were perfect. "On Being a Couples Therapist", Toni Pieroni, p. 148 A couples therapist tells her story of venturing into the anxiety-provoking waters that many therapists avoid if they can. "Sonoma", Jane Munro, p.
155 A "battered blue Sonoma" carries the reader through a partner''s crossing into Alzheimer''s -- which evokes other crossings as well: between empirical reportage and meditative apprehension, dream and wakefulness, Eastern and Western poetic traditions. "Warm Animal", Tana Runyan, p. 156 Hope and relief from cancer''s threat and toll can be found in the body''s own continuing, improbable radiance. "Third Sutra", Anne Simpson, p. 157 About a husband with dementia who is waiting in the hospital for long-term care placement, and his wife who visits him there. Partings "Cleave", Rachel Rose, p. 160 A poem grappling with impending separation, and the necessary revision process that such a division forces in the story of a union. "The Manual of Marriage Failures", Eufemia Fantetti, p.
162 A user-friendly guide wherein the writer confirms that the leading cause of divorce is getting married. "A Tree House of One''s Own", Ellen McGinn, p. 167 After leaving her marriage and living alone for six years, a woman decided to return. "La Cumparsita", Karen Shklanka, p. 174 Sometimes the dance of marriage comes to an end: "La Cumparsita" is traditionally the last tango played at a milonga, or traditional Argentine tango dance. "The Good Wife", Samra Zafar, p. 175 Forced into an arranged marriage at age 16, a young woman copes with an abusive husband while struggling to pursue her long-held dream of continuing her education, eventually managing to escape. "As Women Scorned", Lauren McKeon, p.
185 Sometimes the most devastating news can also be the best thing that ever happened to you. Death "Are You Still Married?", Lesley Buxton, p. 194 It''s not supposed to be like this. When three becomes two again: Expectations and marriage after the death of an only child. "The End of a Marriage", Donna Besel, p. 199 A resilient woman deals with the impact on her family of her husband''s mental illness and suicide. "Your Body Is a Lone Tree", Gina Leola Woolsey, p. 209 Both body and heart grieve as a woman contemplates Thoreau, the morgue, and her husband''s cancer prognosis.
"Gifts", Elise Partridge, p. 213 After decades of shared memories, the greatest gift might be the simple words that reflect profound truths. Celebration "Valentine''s Day", Barry Dempster, p. 216 A poem about true love, from the ridiculous to the sublime . "On Anniversaries", Mandy Len Catron, p. 218 An essay about anniversaries that reconsiders how we measure our commitments. "Late Love Song, with an Orange: A Cento", Maureen Hynes, p. 226 With this poem, the poet merged two wishes: to write a love poem to her partner, and to try her hand at a cento, a traditional poetic form that creates a "patchwork" by borrowing one line from the poems of several other poets.
"Maximum Security", Susan Musgrave, p. 228 How many brides, on leaving the chapel, have to toss the bouquet over a fourteen-foot-high perimeter fence? "Wedding Clothes & Marriage Blanket", Joanne Arnott, p. 233 Metis writer Joanne Arnott tells a story of reunion and a first wedding in midlife. "The Joy of the Ancient Marriers", Andreas Schroeder, p. 241 "The Joy of the Ancient Marriers" promotes the premise that it''s really never too late to marry someone with whom you''ve been happily co-habiting for the past 30 years .